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brie k
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 Posted: 09/09/03 - 14:32 Post subject:
Geesh, this cheeses me off that someone would blow you sh!t about ANYTHING that you are having to endure right now. This is All About YOU and this is a good time to let others know, those who disagree with your decisions, to MYOB. If you cannot support, fine. But SHUT THE F*CK UP if your words are anything but kind and generous, particularly if you specifically were not asked what should be done in this situation.
I'd have to squeeze in there to get your back, so I'll just stand over here and support you in whatever you need to do for you. It's so true that if you are not happy, the family will not be happy.
hang in there. looks like you've got tons of support here.
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Orange Bubble
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Posted: 09/09/03 - 15:06 Post subject:
You've hinted at your marital troubles before. My motto is "you gotta do what you gotta do". Staying in a troubled marriage is not good for anyone, especially the kids. Take this time to take care of yourself and get that eating disorder in check. Good luck.
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pokychick
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Posted: 09/09/03 - 15:15 Post subject:
Only you know what is best for you and your personal situation..no
one else. Take care of yourself. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
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flarunner
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Posted: 09/09/03 - 17:16 Post subject:
I'm sorry that you're going through this difficult time, Steve. Hopefully it will soon pass so that you and your family will be stronger and better. You're a good man who's making a tough decision. Keep true to yourself and your beliefs.
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blue
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Posted: 09/09/03 - 17:29 Post subject:
you're no deadbeat dad at all.
if you have stuff to work out for you to be healthy, then that's the way it is. if someone can't support you in that, then they aren't worth having around.
if you're not happy/healthy, that has a major negative effect on the kids. so take your time, get healthy, and things will get better.
*goodluck*. be strong and take care of the kids.
riffraffs got your back (apparently the front to  ).
-blue
edited to avoid sounding like an insensitive jerknut...
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Sahara
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Posted: 09/09/03 - 17:49 Post subject:
You're a good man. You're a courageous man. Thanks for sharing such a personal thing with us. You know not the good you do.
Wishing you peace.
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PackerBacker
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Posted: 09/10/03 - 10:35 Post subject:
Sorry to hear this, but like everyone else has said, sometimes you have to do what you have to do.
Good luck and let me know if there is anything I can do to help.
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