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HYPERASHEL
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Posted: 08/04/04 - 13:03 Post subject: a serious topic by HYPER. <ut oh>
well you guys know me well enough to know i am a huge clown and tend to be light hearted on life in general.
well asking for your good thoughts for my room-mate, life has given him a Dagwood of a cr@p-sandwhich.
Presently he is going thru a divorce, his first marriage, and even though i know his wife well and get along well i still feel she's screwing him over financially speaking. I can't say if she's doing it intentionally or not though.
Work situation has changed, he spent a while last year unemployed but was hired on as a consultant for a few places (IT Field), got hired as a system manager but with no power to back up his descisions. after a month he was downgraded to system tech. still has a sh1tload of cr@p to deal with. he leaves the house about 8am and gets home about 8pm with only maybe a 20 minute commute.
Mother. he is an only child, like me, his mother years ago had some kind of duct blockage to her intestine, sounds like bile duct and gall bladder issues to me. well a month ago she had some abdominal pain and they detected a mass in her intestine. Cancerous. They removed it and detertimed it to be malignant (not good), removed a section of the intestine and closed her back up. She did not do well with the surgery and had to spen a week in the hospital post-op, sent home last week, and had to go back in due to kidney blockage. they discovered the cause, Dan doesn't remember, tried to put in a drain and a tube to help drain it. Well the kidney contines to bleed out from an unknown source. so far no transfusions as far as he knows.
well just keep him and his family in oyur thoughts please. thanks
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airehead
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Posted: 08/04/04 - 13:33 Post subject:
Man, that is horrible. Reminds me how good things are.
I'm glad he's got you around, though. He probably really appreciates having you in his life.
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crazyfrog
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Posted: 08/04/04 - 13:38 Post subject:
| airehead wrote: | Man, that is horrible. Reminds me how good things are.
I'm glad he's got you around, though. He probably really appreciates having you in his life. |
keeping him in my thoughts...
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rolling rock
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Posted: 08/04/04 - 13:48 Post subject:
yes, he's had his share.
it's good he has a friend in you though.
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mickeyvw98
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Posted: 08/04/04 - 13:49 Post subject:
| crazyfrog wrote: | | airehead wrote: | Man, that is horrible. Reminds me how good things are.
I'm glad he's got you around, though. He probably really appreciates having you in his life. |
keeping him in my thoughts... |
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gretriever
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Posted: 08/04/04 - 14:04 Post subject:
When it rains, it pours.
Best wishes for, and good thoughts to, your roomie.
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Posted: 08/04/04 - 21:21 Post subject:
| gretriever wrote: | When it rains, it pours.
Best wishes for, and good thoughts to, your roomie. |
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kattzoo
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Posted: 08/04/04 - 22:09 Post subject:
good wishes headed in your roomies direction.
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