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JACKED UP
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 Posted: 05/31/06 - 17:39 Post subject: This program just ain't working for me. UPDated!
This is what a lady said to me yesterday.  She is suppose to be coming in 5 days a week doing an hour of higher intensity cardio. She signed up the first of the year cuz she is in a wedding THIS SUMMER and is also going on a tropical vacation and thinks she looks like crap(she does) in a swimming suit. She needs to lose about 50 lbs at least. SHE'S BEEN IN THE GYM TWICE THIS YEAR!  
She wants to sit down with me and discuss her program and why it ain't working. Since I'm not good at subtle according to you guys, what might I tell her??!!  She's in her mid 20's.
Help.me.
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brie k
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Posted: 05/31/06 - 17:41 Post subject:
No advice, but I would pay big money to be there to observe. 
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coachmarkos
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Posted: 05/31/06 - 17:42 Post subject: Re: This program just ain't working for me.
| JACKED UP wrote: | This is what a lady said to me yesterday. She is suppose to be coming in 5 days a week doing an hour of higher intensity cardio. She signed up the first of the year cuz she is in a wedding THIS SUMMER and is also going on a tropical vacation and thinks she looks like crap(she does) in a swimming suit. She needs to lose about 50 lbs at least. SHE'S BEEN IN THE GYM TWICE THIS YEAR!
She wants to sit down with me and discuss her program and why it ain't working. Since I'm not good at subtle according to you guys, what might I tell her??!! She's in her mid 20's.
Help.me. |
well, I would bring your work out schedule, and ask her to show you yours, and then compare notes.
That ought to make her shut up, and most likely quit anyway.
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akern
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Posted: 05/31/06 - 17:46 Post subject:
I would put it to song:
Fatty, fatty 2x4! Can't the through the gym front door!!
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karlene
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Posted: 05/31/06 - 17:56 Post subject:
be honest with her. ask her how she thinks her program will work if she doesn't do it?
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shelflifers
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Posted: 05/31/06 - 17:57 Post subject:
tough. love.
Try to light a fire under her.
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Floridaboiler
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Posted: 05/31/06 - 17:59 Post subject:
If you have it somewhere on paper that says the program needs to be done 5 times a week and then ask her how many times has she been in? The face slap needs to be gentle I think.
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RangerG
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Posted: 05/31/06 - 19:02 Post subject:
| shelflifers wrote: | tough. love.
Try to light a fire under her. |
The Shelfmeister is right.
Workout includes the word WORK
You don't lose the weight by coming in once and then sit on your azz and eat bon bons...
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cherylpf
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Posted: 05/31/06 - 19:09 Post subject:
| RangerG wrote: | | shelflifers wrote: | tough. love.
Try to light a fire under her. |
The Shelfmeister is right.
Workout includes the word WORK
You don't lose the weight by coming in once and then sit on your azz and eat bon bons... |
 at the same time emphasize that what's done is done, don't harbor on it, just move forward and begin the program today, day 1. If she starts today, she'll look better mid summer than she would if she didn't start today.
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Posted: 05/31/06 - 20:01 Post subject:
| cherylpf wrote: | | RangerG wrote: | | shelflifers wrote: | tough. love.
Try to light a fire under her. |
The Shelfmeister is right.
Workout includes the word WORK
You don't lose the weight by coming in once and then sit on your azz and eat bon bons... |
at the same time emphasize that what's done is done, don't harbor on it, just move forward and begin the program today, day 1. If she starts today, she'll look better mid summer than she would if she didn't start today. |
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purple hayes
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Posted: 05/31/06 - 20:05 Post subject:
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Posted: 06/01/06 - 10:03 Post subject:
Show her this...
 = you in a swimsuit
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purple hayes
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Posted: 06/01/06 - 10:14 Post subject:
Update? Have you met with her yet?
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Posted: 06/01/06 - 10:25 Post subject:
| cherylpf wrote: |
at the same time emphasize that what's done is done, don't harbor on it, just move forward and begin the program today, day 1. If she starts today, she'll look better mid summer than she would if she didn't start today. |
as tempting as it may be to slap her upside her head, i'd do what pf is suggesting. if she feels guilt on top of slacking, she's doomed.
this program isn't working for me.....FOR ME.  what happened to me working for it????????? geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze.
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Posted: 06/01/06 - 10:25 Post subject:
this is why I don't work in a customer service-oriented field, or as a teacher - I always think a bish-slap to the head works the best. Even tho I know it's not appropriate. My favorite prof in college was the one everybody else hated b/c he wasn't afraid to answer questions with "had you done the assigned reading, you wouldn't be asking such a stupid question" 
How did it go?
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