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MechEngDropout
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 Posted: 03/16/05 - 14:53 Post subject:
| JACKED UP wrote: |
I hope so too. Who would go camping alone. |
*cough* 
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Gogirlgo
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 15:06 Post subject:
I can't deal with dishonesty. I'd rather someone tell me something unpleasant than be fed a lie. The minute I get lied to and learn about it, I have a lot less respect for that person, and it's something that can't be remedied. If I learn that someone has been dishonest and it didn't have anything to do with me, I still don't completely trust them. Why would I?
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cherylpf
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 15:06 Post subject:
| Gogirlgo wrote: | | I can't deal with dishonesty. I'd rather someone tell me something unpleasant than be fed a lie. The minute I get lied to and learn about it, I have a lot less respect for that person, and it's something that can't be remedied. If I learn that someone has been dishonest and it didn't have anything to do with me, I still don't completely trust them. Why would I? |
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MechEngDropout
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 15:08 Post subject:
I too agree with Go. I have little patience for lying.
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rolling rock
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 15:18 Post subject:
call me naieve, but i don't believe he's lied to me in 23 years, and i mean that. nor have i lied to him. if we're lying like that to each other, i'm filing papers because, at that point, it's a sham. i'd like to think we're trust-based. i mean without that mutual trust, i'd be a babbling fool cuz he's had every opportunity in the world, and around the world, to pull one over on me. i truly believe he hasn't.
but, to answer your question....yeah, i'd b!tchslap the poop outta him. then hand him his hat and change the locks. 
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copteacher
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 15:20 Post subject:
never happened here. No secrets, and we both are really honest with each other. My integrity means too much to me to lie to her. I would rather face the truth now then the ramifications of violating the trust later.
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purple hayes
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 15:20 Post subject:
| rolling rock wrote: | | but, to answer your question....yeah, i'd b!tchslap the poop outta him. then hand him his hat and change the locks. |
Then you'd be guilty of assault and locking him out of his house and you'd be in jail.
/at least that's what thegman told me in a completely hypothetical situation.
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rolling rock
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 15:23 Post subject:
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Then you'd be guilty of assault and locking him out of his house and you'd be in jail.
/at least that's what thegman told me in a completely hypothetical situation. |
visit me 
i hate jail.
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Cappy
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 15:24 Post subject:
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visit me
i hate jail. |
and there is no starbucks there either 
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Ms. Jenn
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 15:29 Post subject:
| Gogirlgo wrote: | | I can't deal with dishonesty. I'd rather someone tell me something unpleasant than be fed a lie. The minute I get lied to and learn about it, I have a lot less respect for that person, and it's something that can't be remedied. If I learn that someone has been dishonest and it didn't have anything to do with me, I still don't completely trust them. Why would I? |
Leads to divorce. FYI.
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copteacher
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 15:44 Post subject:
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and there is no starbucks there either |
If I locked her up I would see that she got a bizucks
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airehead
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 16:17 Post subject:
| Gogirlgo wrote: | | I can't deal with dishonesty. I'd rather someone tell me something unpleasant than be fed a lie. The minute I get lied to and learn about it, I have a lot less respect for that person, and it's something that can't be remedied. If I learn that someone has been dishonest and it didn't have anything to do with me, I still don't completely trust them. Why would I? |
Big Fat
But you should also take into account other things. What type of person is he? Do you catch him like this often? Is he a good person? Is the relationship worth saving?
If so, forgive him, because all humans screw up.
If not, then move on quickly.
Forgiveness doesn't mean the pain goes away, but it does mean you shouldn't throw it in his face ever again during heated moments. Tell him you need to discuss it thoroughly and completely before deciding whether or not to forgive him.
It will hurt for quite awhile...I'm sorry.
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genie
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 16:39 Post subject:
| Gogirlgo wrote: | | I can't deal with dishonesty. I'd rather someone tell me something unpleasant than be fed a lie. The minute I get lied to and learn about it, I have a lot less respect for that person, and it's something that can't be remedied. If I learn that someone has been dishonest and it didn't have anything to do with me, I still don't completely trust them. Why would I? |
Yeah, f*ck that. You lie, you're outta here. Preferably with one of these 
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Cappy
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 16:40 Post subject:
Is lying under oath okay
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keltic63
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Posted: 03/16/05 - 16:46 Post subject:
| Cappy wrote: | Is lying under oath okay
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seems to be all the rage lately! 
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