|
|
|
|
j1miller
Puppy Love!
|
|
|
Joined: 07 Jul 2002
Posts: 15447
Location: Lost on trail.
|
| Back to top
|
|
 Posted: 05/08/05 - 21:17 Post subject: How's this for a Mother's Day gift?
Last edited by j1miller on 06/21/05 - 15:12; edited 1 time in total
|
|
|
|
|
Ms. Jenn
Fresh, Hot & Wild
|
|
|
Joined: 14 Feb 2004
Posts: 7935
Location: Suite 550
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/08/05 - 22:22 Post subject:
You shouldn't have wished for the phone to ring!
(kidding, just kidding, please don't flog me, well, at least not hard!)
Seriously,
Not all men suck. We all have a lapse in judgement at some time or another. The good news? You can learn from this mistake and move on. Learn what kind of guy NOT to pick next time.
Oh..and this makes me laugh
|
|
|
|
|
RangerG
Bounty Hunter
|
|
|
Joined: 13 Mar 2003
Posts: 7301
Location: Gmail Server Number 126
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 05:29 Post subject:
He knows how and when to push your buttons. It's a control freak trait.
You can chose to let him, or not....and you DO have that choice.
From my experience it has been much more fun not to react....it seems to upset the X that she no longer has any control over me.
|
|
|
|
|
JACKED UP
PRESIDENT
|
|
|
Joined: 06 Jun 2003
Posts: 21238
Location: www.johnnydu.com
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 05:43 Post subject: Re: How's this for a Mother's Day gift?
| j1miller wrote: | My stbx called (after the kdis were in bed) and admitted to me that he has a gf. I mean, I knew, sort of, but he flat out told me. He's ben seeing her for a few weeks. OK, he's only been gone a month.
Gee. Happy f ing Mothers Day. 
Next year, how bout a knife to the heart? Today I was lonely anyway. How does he pick just the right times? The a hole. |
I'm sorry. 
|
|
|
|
|
brie k
Member
|
|
|
Joined: 15 May 2002
Posts: 5661
Location: where the wild things are
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 05:49 Post subject:
I'm really sorry for this.
|
|
|
|
|
MastrBrewr
Saccharomyces cerevisiae
|
|
|
Joined: 24 Sep 2003
Posts: 6974
Location: outside
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 06:36 Post subject:
| brie k wrote: | | I'm really sorry for this. |
d!ck. 
|
|
|
|
|
copteacher
Adjunct
|
|
|
Joined: 08 Jun 2002
Posts: 20588
Location: Teaching in the Halls of Justice
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 06:59 Post subject:
These days are always classic for exes to get shots in on each other. It is a low down tactic.
|
|
|
|
|
j1miller
Puppy Love!
|
|
|
Joined: 07 Jul 2002
Posts: 15447
Location: Lost on trail.
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 07:53 Post subject:
Last edited by j1miller on 06/21/05 - 15:11; edited 1 time in total
|
|
|
|
|
keltic63
the kilted one
|
|
|
Joined: 17 May 2002
Posts: 8574
Location: under the weather
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 08:51 Post subject:
| RangerG wrote: | He knows how and when to push your buttons. It's a control freak trait.
You can chose to let him, or not....and you DO have that choice.
From my experience it has been much more fun not to react....it seems to upset the X that she no longer has any control over me. |
this is the best, isn't it? my stbx seems to pick days or times that she knows are special in some way, then she tries to rattle the cage. The best reaction to it is a non-reaction. I'd have to go back and look in the journals I've kept to list all the statements she has made that were basically designed to cause me grief. She hasn't carried out most of her comments/threats.
|
|
|
|
|
Maddies Wench
Flailing Homosapiens
|
|
|
Joined: 12 Jun 2003
Posts: 6103
Location: Seeking out the poorer quarters where the ragged people go.
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 09:13 Post subject:
Jen put it in perspective. He could have been calling to tell you he's HIV postive or something. THIS you can live through because you are strong enough tochoose to let it edify you rather than deconstruct you.
|
|
|
|
|
j1miller
Puppy Love!
|
|
|
Joined: 07 Jul 2002
Posts: 15447
Location: Lost on trail.
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 09:26 Post subject:
| Maddie's Wench wrote: | | Jen put it in perspective. He could have been calling to tell you he's HIV postive or something. THIS you can live through because you are strong enough tochoose to let it edify you rather than deconstruct you. |
You have a point there, my friend.
|
|
|
|
|
HYPERASHEL
Member
|
|
|
Joined: 18 Nov 2003
Posts: 15397
Location: The South's Sauna, Atlanta
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 09:30 Post subject:
Jen, sorry to hear this
you already nailed it, he's an A hole and he just wants to hurt you as much as possible.
ignore his immature antics, it's hard to but you'll be better off for it.
|
|
|
|
|
coachmarkos
my boys could swim
|
|
|
Joined: 14 May 2002
Posts: 11387
Location: 1st in AFC West
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 09:43 Post subject:
that sucks.
and probably confirms the fact that although not easy, it's a good thing he is gone.
|
|
|
|
|
wanttorun100
Member
|
|
|
Joined: 14 Feb 2005
Posts: 4946
Location: Just to the right of Atilla the Hun!
|
| Back to top
|
|
Posted: 05/09/05 - 09:48 Post subject:
sometimes I'm ashamed to be male
|
|
|
|
