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Pug
The Movie Geek
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 Posted: 03/23/04 - 11:36 Post subject:
You love me
I hate you
this relationship
has turned to poo
I want out
this can't last
I think we
have gone too fast
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Gogirlgo
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Location: No deal, stalker.
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Posted: 03/23/04 - 11:47 Post subject:
| copdotcom1 wrote: | | Isn't it amazing that it is so easy to get into a relationship but so hard to get out of one? Actually, having been on both sides of the issue, my only advice is be honest. Tell her your ending the realtionship and why. I have tried the "it's me not you" approach as well as several other "let them down easy" approaches, and it has always turned out badly. The last time I broke up, I was honest, and it worked out much better that way. There is always going to be some feeling of rejection on the part of the person being dumped, but that isn't something you can control. Being honest is the best you can do. |
I agree completely.
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genie
Master of Prissface
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Posted: 03/23/04 - 12:04 Post subject:
Me too...especially if you're feeling it is because you aren't being treated well. Screw that, life's too short to be crapped on, baby. You don't have to be nasty to her, but definitely be honest. If she honestly doesn't understand what she's doing, at least she'll be able (hopefully) to learn from her mistakes. If she does and doesn't care, then you're still better off without her.
Good luck, it's a tough place to be in but you deserve better than it sounds like you're getting.
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rolling rock
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Posted: 03/23/04 - 13:09 Post subject:
| genie wrote: | Me too...especially if you're feeling it is because you aren't being treated well. Screw that, life's too short to be crapped on, baby. You don't have to be nasty to her, but definitely be honest. If she honestly doesn't understand what she's doing, at least she'll be able (hopefully) to learn from her mistakes. If she does and doesn't care, then you're still better off without her.
Good luck, it's a tough place to be in but you deserve better than it sounds like you're getting. |
 couldn't have said it better.
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Running Brewer
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Posted: 03/23/04 - 13:50 Post subject:
I would just follow Phil and Arlene in City Slickers!
| Quote: | Arlene: I hate you!
Phil: I hate you more! If hate were people, I'd be China! |
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genie
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Posted: 03/23/04 - 14:17 Post subject:
| Running Brewer wrote: | I would just follow Phil and Arlene in City Slickers!
| Quote: | Arlene: I hate you!
Phil: I hate you more! If hate were people, I'd be China! |
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On your signature quote: I heard that the other day. That girl is about the stupidest creature on the planet! 
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