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| At what point is it OK to give and/or receive undies from your SO ? |
| Not within the first year |
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6% |
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| After the fifth date |
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6% |
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| After we get engaged/married |
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| As long as its expensive - anytime |
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| Forget it. They will just buy some slutty perverted stuff |
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| OK, Maybe I want slutty perverted stuff (Undies that is) |
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| The only thing my SO will probably get me is FOTL or Hanes Cotton stuff |
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6% |
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RexRacer
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 Posted: 11/11/04 - 10:46 Post subject:
| HighHeat wrote: | | The undie-gift shouldn't come before the first kiss. |
So are you saying it's not appropriate to bring a box of undies to distribute at your Speed Dating party?
"Hi, I'm Fred. I'm an attorney here in the city. My interests are theater, reading, and seeing you in these sheer crotchless panties."
DING! Next table!
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brie k
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 10:48 Post subject:
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If you are serious,...
It depends, but I used to try really hard not to do it on the first date.
I wasn't always successful. 
If you are not serious,...
Then it should most definitely happen before you see his/her undies.  |
Interesting. I kissed Kramer on our first date. In fact, I think on most of my first dates there was a kiss.
I don't think I want a first date. Can I just skip to the fifth?! 
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HighHeat
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 10:51 Post subject:
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Interesting. I kissed Kramer on our first date. In fact, I think on most of my first dates there was a kiss.
I don't think I want a first date. Can I just skip to the fifth?! |
Like I said. I wasn't always successful. Actually, it was more that I had this impossible standard that I tried, in vane, to hold myself to.
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BamBam
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 10:54 Post subject:
At what point is it OK to give and/or receive undies from your SO ?
I don't think I would ever give Pebbs my undies....and I certainly wouldn't fit into hers
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elkid
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 11:12 Post subject:
Any man who gives a woman underwear/lingerie is completely uninspired.
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Ms. Jenn
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 12:10 Post subject:
After you've had sex with this person and you are truly dating and pursuing a relationship (i.e. you are not just f*cking and not friends only who sometimes f*ck). Intimate gifts (of any kind) are very personal and indicate a certain level of trust in a relationship and a silent overture that you wish for this relationship to continue.
Intimate gifts should not be the only gift. It should be an extra fun gift. Give her a real gift, something important to her. Something that shows you've been paying attention to her or listening intently.
Examples:
She says "you know, my feet are always cold" and you buy her some electric heated slippers...or
She's ALWAYS baking and mixing, so you buy her the really cool Kitchen Aid mixer---trust me this is ALWAYS an acceptable gift
She loves Margaritas and has a crappy blender...buy her stuff to make margaritas and a good blender (Kitchen Aid is a great brand...)
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MissLes
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 12:16 Post subject:
| elkid wrote: | | Any man who gives a woman underwear/lingerie is completely uninspired. |
I respectfully disagree. 
I think it's a wonderful spontaneous gift. I can't say I'd love it for a birthday or Christmas, but to come home to a surprise package or to find it on the bed when we've gone out of town for a long weekend. . .it's a welcome treat.
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Running Brewer
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 12:18 Post subject:
| Ms. Jenn wrote: |
Examples:
She says "you know, my feet are always cold" and you buy her some electric heated slippers...or |
and then send her out in the rain to get the mail! 
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Noley
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 13:04 Post subject:
| Running Brewer wrote: |
and then send her out in the rain to get the mail! |
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bpdou
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 13:09 Post subject:
| Sahara wrote: | A semi-serious response:
I view a gift of slinky lingerie as a gift for him not for me so that had better not be The Gift (meaning the only gift). Having typed that, I wear slinky lingerie for myself first and foremost. <grin> And it's fun to share it.
edit to say: oh criminy... i didn't mean it THAT way... I meant fun to show it |
absolutely!
absolutely!
And I'd say after the first mention of unmentionables is the time to offer unmentionables since now they are mentionable.
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 13:45 Post subject:
[quote="MissLes"]or to find it on the bed when we've gone out of town for a long weekend.quote]
There's gonna be a whole lotta explaining going on if I go out of town for a long weekend and come home to men's underwears on the bed. 
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HYPERASHEL
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 14:06 Post subject:
| Ms. Jenn wrote: |
Examples:
She says "you know, my feet are always cold" and you buy her some electric heated slippers...or
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mickeyvw98
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 16:04 Post subject:
| MissLes wrote: |
I respectfully disagree.
I think it's a wonderful spontaneous gift. I can't say I'd love it for a birthday or Christmas, but to come home to a surprise package or to find it on the bed when we've gone out of town for a long weekend. . .it's a welcome treat. |
 I think it's a really nice gift. It brings romance.
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Gogirlgo
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 16:10 Post subject:
When a certain someone has gifted me with an undie set (we've been married a long time--we double-dated with Moses) I see it as a really nice thing.
Because the man is totally out of his realm, out of what he knows. But goes out on a limb anyway. He could have said, "Hey honey, here's the best beer and chips and dip combo you could ever want to watch the game with. I got them for you." and that also would have been romantic in its own weird way. But he didn't. He got me sets. Hugely romantic, I think.
In fact, hey Rex. How you doin'? 
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Floridaboiler
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Posted: 11/11/04 - 20:33 Post subject:
I buy Mrs Boiler stuff from time to time, usually as a surprise not for an event. Now if I can just convince her to wear it more.
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